Best Marriage Advice EVER…
It is said that marriages are made in heaven, but than also we came across many people having problems in their married lives. Apart from movies and reality shows, there is no marriage which can be termed as perfect. There are certain rules, if followed correctly, lead to a happy married life, even if there is a lot of problem they face.
1. Even when you find it difficult to like one another, choose to love the other. Love is an action, not just an emotion.
2. When your husband or wife calls, always pick up. When you and your partner are together, try to avoid using your phone.
3. Prioritize spending time together. Plan a regular date night into your budget. Time is the “currency of relationships,” therefore devote time to your marriage on a regular basis.
4. Assemble a group of buddies who will help your marriage. Keep away from anyone who can convince you to violate your morals.
5. Make your marriage’s soundtrack one of laughing. Share happy times. And discover humor despite the difficulties.
6. Bear in mind that no disagreement will have a “winner” or “loser.” Because you are partners in everything, you will either succeed or fail together. Come up with a solution as a team.
7. Recognize that two strong individuals rarely coexist in a marriage. Typically, a husband and wife alternate being strong for one another while the other is feeling weak.
8. Give the bedroom’s activities top priority. It takes more than just sex to have a healthy marriage, but it would be quite difficult to do so without it.
9. Keep in mind that divorce is more likely than marriage to occur. Marriage must be a perfect match. Instead of dividing everything in half, both partners must give everything they have.
10. After giving your best to everyone else, give to each other instead of giving leftovers.
11. Take advice from others, but avoid comparing your marriage or your life to anyone else’s. God has a masterfully original plan for your life.
12. If you put off having a family while raising your children, you risk having an empty nest and an empty marriage.
13. Never conceal anything from one another. Intimacy is harmed by secrecy.
14. Never deceive one another. Lies undermine the foundation of a strong marriage, which is trust.
15. Admit your mistakes and ask for forgiveness in a humble manner. You should be quick to admit when you are mistaken. I apologize. Please pardon me.
16. If your spouse betrays your confidence, you must immediately forgive them. This will encourage recovery and provide a chance for trust to be reestablished. Saying “I love you” should come easily to you. I absolve you. Let’s continue on.
17. Show each other some patience. Always prioritize your marriage over your schedule.
18. Set an example of a marriage that will encourage both your daughters and boys to become good spouses in the future.
19. Encourage rather than criticize your spouse the most. Instead of causing their tears, be the one to dry them up.
20. Never criticize your spouse in front of others or vent online. Never leave your spouse unattended, anywhere.
21. Wear your wedding band every day. Both you and the outside world will be reminded that you are always connected to your spouse by this.
22. Say nothing to your spouse whenever you can avoid doing so rather than using foul language.
23. Never consider getting a divorce. Keep in mind that a “perfect marriage” is simply two flawed individuals who remain committed to one another.
Just try following above mentioned things in your life and you can regenerate the lost spark in your relationship.
Sanam
